The Church is made up of broken people. There will inevitably be conflicts and misunderstanding, that is just part of living in a fallen world. The question is: when those things inevitably occur, are we going to handle it like adults, or like children? Adults talk things out and look for a way forward. Children get caught in drama and he-said-she-said and never solve anything.
Jed Brewer on episode 84 of the Say That podcast