No matter what you do or how you grow in your faith, there will be people who call themselves Christians who disapprove of something, wether it is the music you listen to, or the language you use, or the clothes you’re wearing. You do not owe those people an explanation. Read Matthew chapter 25, that is what Jesus cares about, loving and serving people. People who are doing those things are the ones you should be looking to, not people who sit on the sidelines criticizing.
Jed Brewer on episode 81 of the Say That podcast.